This guideline is a suggestion for congregations of the Christian Church. These guidelines are based on a process used by many congregations in several denominations and are designed to provide a grace filled experience for your congregation.
These resources are highly recommended to all who are entering a journey towards naming a ministry Open & Affirming:
- Contact Melissa Guthrie Loy, Executive Director + Minister, at firstname.lastname@example.org. Melissa will help you design a process tailored for your congregation.
- Download and read through Building an Inclusive Church: A Welcoming Toolkit 2.0, available at http://www.welcomingresources.org/welcomingtoolkit.pdf. Many of the steps below are described in more detail in the Toolkit.
- Form a core group of supporters, including LGBT persons, to guide your congregation through the discernment process.
- Inform the ministerial staff of your plans and ask for their support and participation. However, it is important that the process not be a clergy-led activity. It is important that the clergy can serve as pastors to the whole church throughout this process.
- Send some of your core group members to a Building an Inclusive Church Training. The schedule can be found at http://www.welcomingresources.org/communityorg.htm.
- Evaluate your congregation’s readiness to engage in the process (there are resources for this in the Toolkit).
- Plan your O&A process based on the needs of your congregation and the support of the leadership. Include study about inclusion, gender, and sexuality as well as time to hear and tell personal stories. Many resources can be found on the AllianceQ website under the Resources tab. See our page The Welcoming Journey for more guidance. And don’t hesitate to contact us for suggestions.
- Bring the plan to the official leadership body of your congregation (such as the church board, elders, or council) to engage their support.
- Covenant as a congregation to complete the O&A process. This may be included as part of a worship service or a congregational meeting.
- Engage your process prayerfully, evaluating and adjusting along the way.
- Appoint a task force to write an Open & Affirming statement that clearly specifies that persons of all gender expressions and sexual identities are welcome in the membership, leadership, and employment of your congregation. We suggest that this be part of an overall mission statement so that your congregation will not be voting only on the inclusion of persons of diverse gender expressions and sexual orientations.
- Ensure that at least 85 percent of your congregation is supportive through a straw poll. (Survey Monkey is a great resource for this poll: https://www.surveymonkey.com/)
- If less than 85 percent is supportive, stop and spend more time studying and building relationships.
- If 85 percent or more is supportive, proceed to the discussion of the Open & Affirming statement.
- Publish the suggested Open & Affirming statement and make room for discussion among your congregation’s members.
- Establish a clear decision making process prior to meeting. Will your congregation vote or will this be a process of reaching consensus?
- If voting, it is recommended that adopting the Open & Affirming statement require 85 percent or more of the vote.
- It is also recommended that there be at least three options for voting: Yes, I support this decision and I am personally supportive; Yes, I support this decision, but I can’t personally agree with this right now; No, I don’t support this decision.
- Similarly, if your congregation chooses a consensus process, there should be room for people to express their discomfort with the decision even if they choose not to block the consensus.
- Following the established process for decision-making, meet and adopt the Open & Affirming statement.
Once the statement is adopted:
- The governing board of your congregation reviews policies concerning employment to ensure that they encourage applications from persons of all gender expressions and sexual identities and provide equal protections and benefits for all employees.
- Make your congregation’s Open & Affirming witness public and further the mission of the Open & Affirming Ministry Program by:
- Publishing the statement with AllianceQ, the General Church (via Disciple Digest/Disciple News Service), the Regional Church (via the regional newsletter), your congregation’s website, and in the local community.
- Proclaiming yourself an Open & Affirming setting through the use of the AllianceQ logo and the words “an Open & Affirming Congregation of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ)” on your website and printed materials such as Sunday bulletins and newsletters.
- Regularly revisiting and deepening your commitment to being a more inclusive community of faith through engagement with communities and persons who have traditionally been marginalized and excluded from the church and in society.
- Including AllianceQ in your regular mission budget.
- Confirm your Open & Affirming commitment with AllianceQ by sending a letter or email from the pastor or board chair:
- requesting placement on AllianceQ Open & Affirming webpage,
- describing the process that brought the ministry to consensus or describing the ministry’s history of welcoming LGBT persons,
- stating that the congregation has confirmed its Open & Affirming statement in a vote or consensus process,
- describing how the congregation intends to make its Open & Affirming status public on its website, printed materials, and other places, and
- affirming its support of AllianceQ through a financial pledge or other support,
along with a copy of your Open & Affirming statement and your employment non-discrimination policy, if separate from your Open & Affirming statement, to email@example.com.
And don’t forget to celebrate in worship and fellowship your new commitment to inclusivity and justice as an Open & Affirming setting of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ).